I wanted to put this down somewhere that we could quickly refer to it without having to go to the Kingdom Spreadsheet. Based on the map, it appears to me that there are (currently) four (or maybe five) realms that we sort of border.
Mivon - to the south. Chaotic Neutral territory. We sort of have a Treaty with them (currently). Don't think it would classify as an Alliance, though.
Varnhold - to the east. Not sure about alignment. We're at least moderately friendly with them (until we can tie ourselves closer ... perhaps by marrying Tess off to Ser Casimir?)
Drelev - to the west. Not sure about alignment. With Andrei's marriage to Liliya, we'll have at least an Embassy and maybe a Treaty. Not quite an Alliance.
"Rostland" - the rebelling provinces to the north. Not sure about alignment. Like Mivon, we sort of have a Treaty with them. Don't think it would classify as an Alliance, though.
Brevoy (or Issian territory) - far to the north. I think Brevoy is classified as Chaotic Neutral. Given our loose alliances with both "Rostland" and Mivon, I suspect they're fairly negatively inclined toward us.
Pitax - to the west, beyond Drelev. I think they're also classified as Chaotic Neutral. Not sure if they're even aware of us at the moment.
Some quick clarification from my point of view of what the PC's "know", I will not state how you feel about them, as that is up to y'all:
Mivon - To the SW. CN. Led by King Raston. Shieldlands allowing troops/supplies to pass through in support of Brevoy civil war. Shieldlands also accepted Melikova as a favor.
Varnhold - To the ENE. TN. Led by King Maegar Varn. Have exchanged diplomatic curtosies several times and Walays could give a general account of the town, military disposition, and surrounding land use. For detailed information it would take some spycraft.
Drelev - To the NW. Unknown alignment. Led by Baron Drelev and Baroness Orlovsky-Drelev. Nothing else is known. No diplomatic exchanges outside of the marriage arrangement.
"Rostland" (Brevoy) - To the NE. CN. In civil war with Issia (Brevoy). Currently not a recognized kingdom. Shieldlands has "helped" Rostland by taking war refugees and allowing Mivon to pass through their lands.
"Issia" (Brevoy) - To the NE. CN. Led by King-Regent Noleski Surtova. In civil war with Rostland (Brevoy).
Ubagugia - To the N. CN. Led by King Ubagug the Fair. Have exchanged diplomatic visits several times.
Sootscale Kobolds - To the E. LN. Led by Chief Sootscale. Vassal state. Sootscale sits on the council.
Pitax - To the W, somewhere. Unknown alignment. Unknown ruler. Nothing is known about this country to the point where Pitax is just a rumored kingdom.
Though a reminder than relationships may not be mutual - a kingdom may have a positive attitude towards you that you may not agree with, or vice versa.
Also, I really liked the rules from Ultimate Rulership's and think we will start incorporating them as well, especially if Walays is going to start being a Spymaster, the espionage edicts are fun!
Last Edit: Feb 7, 2018 12:49:14 GMT -6 by WxMAN: Added Sootscale Kobolds